The Rule of 5: Daily Actions Towards Your Dream

John C. Maxwell teaches that success comes from consistently doing five key activities every day that move you toward your desired outcome. His own Rule of 5 included reading, filling ideas, thinking, asking questions and writing – habits that contributed to his becoming a prolific author and speaker. He uses the metaphor of chopping down a giant tree with an ax; if you take five swings at the same tree every day, it will eventually fall, no matter how big it is.

Many people carry a dream in their hearts for years – a book they want to write, a message they want to share, or a business they want to launch. Yet life gets busy, fear creeps in, and the dream remains buried. It is not that they lack desire, but they lack confidence and a structure to see them through. When the dream feels too big, use this Rule of 5 to start and get into the momentum.

Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin – Zechariah 4:10

How to Create Your Own “Rule of 5”

You can apply this framework to achieve your dreams:

  1. Identify your “tree” – having clarity on what your dream is. Example: write your book.
  2. Find your “ax” – this is the specific tools, skills, or resources required to achieve that dream. Example: writing skills, AI for idea generation, and accountability partner.
  3. Do your “swing” – define your 5 daily actions. Choose 5 small, manageable, and intentional tasks that directly move you toward your goal. Do this every day without fail. Example: write 300 words, use Ai to generate ideas, research topic, listen to podcast and update accountability partner.

My Invitation

This is my invitation to you today: if there is a dream that God has placed in your heart, identify five simple actions that will move you closer to it. Then commit to doing them daily. Your future is shaped not only by what you dream, but by what you do each day to achieve that dream.

God may have given you the dream, but you still need to sharpen your ax and take your daily swings.

Finding Our Identity in a Changing World

We live in a world that is changing faster than ever. Something trending today will be forgotten when a new trend takes over. Something popular today will be out of people’s mind when a newer thing emerges. A viral influencer can be hottest person in social media until he/she is replaced by another viral influencer…

The World Offers Many Identities

In the midst of all this change, it is a challenge to define who we are in the fast-paced ever-changing world. We tend to define ourselves by what we do, what we own and how others perceive us. We describe our identities based on our career, or achievements, or relationships. However, these do not define who we are.

Identity Needs a Strong Foundation

Just as a building requires a strong foundation, our identity needs something stable, strong and unchanging. Our identity begins with who God says we are.

”See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!” — 1 John 3:1

God calls us His beloved children. We are loved, known and redeemed by God. Whatever happens in the world, or to us – we belong to a loving Heavenly Father. This is the foundation of our identity.

A Strong Foundation helps us Navigate Change

Change is inevitable. The world will continue to evolve. Technology will continue to advance. New opportunities and challenges will emerge.

But when our identity is grounded in something unchanging, we can face whatever challenges with greater confidence and peace. And we know we are never alone.

We do not need to follow trends to be accepted. We do not need to pretend to be someone else to blend into a group. We do not need to sacrifice who we are to be approved by others.

Our identity is rooted in Christ. In this ever changing world, we need to remain rooted in the truth of who we are and who we belong to. In this chaotic world, my faith in God has been the foundation of my identity.

My Invitation

This is my invitation to you today: in a world that is constantly changing, take a moment to reflect on the foundation of your identity. Do not be swayed by trends, popular opinions or latest movements – stand firm in who you are.

How Our Attachments Shape Our Identity

Last week, I talked about detachment. This week, I will talk about attachment. Our attachments to possessions, achievements, relationships, and status. In today’s world, many of us have become deeply attached to our devices – and our social media, digital validation and constant connection.

Technology and gadget are not the problem. But unhealthy attachment can quietly shift where we place our attention, worth and security.

Our Attachments Reveal What We Value Most

When we feel bored, lonely, anxious or uncertain, many of us instinctively reach for our phones. We scroll, compare and distract ourselves without even thinking.

Over time, these habits form attachments. And those attachments begin shaping our hearts. Jesus reminds us that our hearts naturally follow what we treasure the most.

”For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” — Matthew 6:21 (NIV)

Constant Attachment Can Distort Our Identity

The digital world constantly encourages us to build identity through visibility, performance and approval. We are tempted to measure our worth through: likes, followers, engagements, rewards or achievements.

When we become too attached to the opinions and noise of the world, we can lose sight of who we are in Christ.

God doesn’t define us by performance, but by our relationship with Him.

True Freedom Comes from Being Rooted in God

I am not saying to detach from the digital world, which for many of us, is quite impossible! However, we need a healthy detachment to use technology without allowing it to control us. We need to create space for stillness, reflection, prayer and deeper awareness of God’s presence.

The more rooted we are in God, the less dependent we become on external validation from social media to shape our identity.

Our identity is found in being deeply loved and known by a loving and gracious God.

My Invitation

This is my invitation today: pause and reflect on what you have become most attached to – and whether those attachments are drawing you closer to God and shaping who you are in God.