Month: December 2025

Feeling is for Thinking. Thinking is for Action.

While I was reading Daniel Pink’s book, The Power of Regrets, this line struck me and got me thinking:

Feeling is for Thinking. Thinking is for Action.

As the year comes to an end, I can’t help feeling many emotions: joy, gratitude and blessed, as well as disappointment and regrets. What he said first – feeling is for thinking – made me reflect on my feelings and what they mean to me. Then he said – thinking is for action – inspires me to step into the new year with boldness and courage.

Feeling: What surfaced This Year Matters

Year-end feelings are not distractions to be skimmed over, they reveal true indicators of our past year. They point to what we have valued this year, and what we are grateful for this year. Where there are regrets for the year, it points to what has continued to stir in our hearts.

Search me, O God, and know my heart – Psalm 139:23

Thinking: Reflection turns Feeling into Wisdom

Feelings are fleeting and not always dependable, yet they are useful for reflection and insight. Sitting with our feelings makes us pause for self-reflection, which will lead us to better thinking, insight and wisdom.

Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom – Psalm 90:12

Action: Obedience is the bridge to the Next Chapter

The end of a year leads to the beginning of a new year, just like closing one door and opening a new door. A time to let go of the year that is ending, and embrace a new year – with the alignment of the heart for faithful obedience to God. To say “Yes!” to God. To make the decision that has been delayed long enough. To take action with renewed courage. To setup systems in place rather than rely on my willpower or discipline. To trust in God’s plan for me.

Do not merely listen to the word… Do what it says – James 1:22

My Invitation

This is my invitation to you: sit with your feelings, reflect on them to lead you to your thinking, then let your thinking lead you to your action. Because when reflection turns into obedience, regret turns into redemption – a new chapter and a new year begins.

From Regret to Redemption

I just finished Daniel Pink’s book, “The Power of Regret – How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward”. He identified four types of regrets – what it sounds like and the human needs it reveals:

Type of Regret What it sounds like The Human Needs it Reveals
Foundation If only I’d done the work Stability
Boldness If only I’d taken the risk Growth
Moral If only I’d done the right thing Goodness
Connection If only I’d reached out Love

A solid foundation. A little boldness. Basic morality. Meaningful connection. The negative emotion of regret reveals the positive path of living – Daniel Pink, The Power of Regret.

As much as we would like to live a life without regrets, we realize that it is impossible – from the small regret of eating the extra slice of cake to major regret of ruining a marriage or business.

However, regret is not failure. Often, God uses regret as a turning point:

  • Peter deeply regretted denying Jesus three times. In return, Jesus asked him three times, “Do you love me?”. Then Jesus built the foundation of His church with Peter.
  • Moses spent 40 years regretting a rash decision that caused him to flee to the desert. Yet God prepared him as a shepherd so that he could lead a nation out of Egypt.
  • Paul carried the weight of persecuting Christians, until God appeared and spoke to him, “Why are you persecuting me?”. This transformed him to become one of the most powerful apostle to spread the Good News to many pagan nations.

God has a long history of redeeming regrets. He used our past regrets to become wisdom and conviction to move us forward in a way that no other way could. God had used all my regrets for His purpose, and redeemed me in His love, grace and hope. Looking back, there was no other way God could have convicted me from my stubborn heart, except through the pain and sorrow of regret. What I had regretted – revealed to me what I truly valued.

For all of us still wallowing in the “If Only” Regrets, God is calling us to His redemption of grace and hope, to lead us to our salvation.

My Invitation

This is my invitation to you today: to seek God’s redemption for your regrets.

Reflect Before The Year Ends

As the year draws to an end, let us take some time to pause and reflect. Amidst the busy festive season or rushing through year-end closing activities, let us ask ourselves these three questions below.

What did this year reveal about what truly matters to me?

It doesn’t matter what you said mattered to you – but what your time, energy and attention kept returning to. Your action speaks louder than your words. Your daily habits reveal more about what matters to you, than what we think matters to you. My faith has really seen me through my struggles this year. God has shown me His protection, provision and abundant blessings. My devotional and gratitude journal have helped me stay faithful and grounded. God truly matters to me.

Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also – Matthew 6:21

Where did I grow – especially in ways no one else saw?

I grew in trusting God, especially in what I perceived as delays. What I have learnt is that there is no delay in God’s perfect timing – it is God’s way of preparing me for His divine dream. God knows when I am ready, and when I am not. I need to trust Him more than ever, shut down the constant doubts and stop comparing with other people. What felt slow might be deep work – just like how you don’t see the roots growing deep and wide underground.

Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work being – Zechariah 4:10

What is God inviting me to carry forward to next year?

What I have learnt is that my struggle in waiting for God’s timing is part of the process of preparing me for my divine dream. Just like how brewing stew takes time for the flavour to come out. Rush the process, and you won’t get the full flavour. I will carry forward this waiting time – trusting that God will reveal His plan in due time while preparing me according to His plan.

Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord – Lamentations 3:40

My Invitation

This is my invitation to you today: take time to reflect – not to judge yourself but to listen to your heart lovingly. Let this reflection turn your passing year into lasting wisdom.

Dreams that Rise on Heaven’s Timing

Nehemiah’s story started with tears – when he heard of the deplorable state of Jerusalem – the walls were broken and the gates were burned with fire. In his heart, a holy burden was born. What many people missed about Nehemiah’s story was this: he didn’t rush into rebuilding – he waited, prayed, fasted and carried out the dream before God for four months.

The Dream begins with a burden – but unfolds in God’s Timing

Nehemiah’s dream began the day he was wept upon hearing about the broken walls of Jerusalem. But the rebuilding didn’t start until heaven opened the door through King Xerxes, who not only gave him permission to leave, but also gave him safe passage to Jerusalem and material for rebuilding the walls.

When I heard these things, I sat down and wept. For some days I mourned and fasted and prayed before the God of heaven – Nehemiah 1:4

The Pause is for Preparation

Nehemiah mourned, prayed and fasted. Before Nehemiah can rebuild walls, God needed to rebuild Nehemiah – for his courage, clarity, strategy and resolve. God is preparing Nehemiah so that he can reply the king and receive the king’s blessings.

Then I prayed to God of heaven, and I answered the king, “If it pleases the king and if your servant has found favour in his sight, let him send me to the city in Judah where my ancestors are buried so that I can rebuild it.” – Nehemiah 2:4-5

When Heaven’s Timing Arrives

Once God opened the door, Nehemiah rebuilt the walls that were destroyed for 140 years – in just 52 days. God’s timing can sometimes seem slow, and at times, happen in impossible speed! His timing is always perfect. 

So the wall was completed in fifty-two days – Nehemiah 6:15

My Invitation

This is my invitation to you today: trust in God for His perfect timing. When I first published my first journal book based on Nehemiah in 2022, God gave me the crazy idea of publishing the book in 52 days! Amidst my doubts and fears, I succeeded to do that. I truly believe it was only through the power of the Holy Spirit that I was able to achieve this impossible feat!

A God-sized dream is never rushed. It is divinely timed.

Still Dreaming in December

It’s the first of December – the first day of the last month of the year. For some, time has gone too fast this year – it seems like there hasn’t been enough time to accomplish what you’ve dreamt or hoped for. Perhaps you’ve been stagnant or stuck. And you can’t help wonder: Did I hear God right? Was this really my dream?

Delays are not Dead Ends

God often delays dream because He is preparing the dreamer. The classic example is Joseph, whose dream took him 13 years to come true, but he didn’t lose hope – even after he was sold as a slave, imprisoned wrongly, and betrayed. Your dream may seemed delayed, but it’s right on time for God’s purpose. The end of the year is not the end of your dream. What God has planned for you, it will come.

Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay — Habakkuk 2:3

Year End Reflections

December is a month of reflection – of the year coming to an end and the year ahead. Some might be disappointed with projects not completed yet, targets not met, or situations that has not changed. Some have great achievements and successes. Yet God is in all of them – orchestrating our lives according to His plan. Even if you don’t see anything happening, trust that God is working in your life – just as a tree might not be seen to be growing sometimes, but its roots are spreading deep and wide underground. Whatever the year has been for you, do not lose hope, but be renewed in your strength.

But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength…— Isaiah 40:31

Carry Your Hope into the New Year

The end of the year is a great time to review: how far you have come, what you have learnt this year, and how you can do even better next year. It is a time to plan for fresh beginnings for the new year.

See, I am doing a new thing… do you not perceive it? — Isaiah 43:19

My Invitation

This is my invitation to you today: as we come to the last month of the year, renew your hope in God for planting the divine dream in You – trust that He will make it come to fruition – in His perfect timing.